Several months ago a bright, young marketing guy produced and gave us this video. "Mother's Choice" gets at the choices facing low-income parents who struggle to make a positive life for themselves and their children.
The spot has aired several times thanks to WFAA TV Channel 8 here in Dallas.
Our work is all about engaging people like the mom behind the sounds you will hear as you read of her dilemma.
Remember her today.
RC, thanks for the post.
ReplyDeleteYou assume that the baby crying is born to a teenager. Why?
To answer your question, we are working hard with children and teens on these issues, but not to a large enough scale. We have found that the root cause of so many babies born to unwed, teenaged mothers is poverty.
But the point here is the baby. The life of the child, the health and welfare of the child, the education and housing of the child, the future of the child in terms of its own development, life and contribution to the community and the cost of failing to respond adequately to the child.
Understanding the world of a poor teenaged girl is crucial to the this process. I think few of us really comprehend what it is like. I have had more than one very young teen mom in the church here tell me they had a baby or babies so that "I would have someone to love and someone to love me back."
Fighting poverty at every level and in a multi-dimensional manner is key.
Great video. Very simple, and yet very meaningful. Thanks for posting this.
ReplyDeleteThe idea that all parents "choose" to have a baby is fairly ridiculous, RC. Just because it was easy for you to remain abstinent does not mean that other people had the same lack of social pressures, economic factors, possibly abusive parents driving them out of the home and therefore wanting to attach to someone else, etc.
ReplyDeleteIt is not condescending to argue that the poor have other factors driving their decisions than choice. It simply acknowledges the reality of poverty, which is about far more than personal choice.
ReplyDeleteI think anonymous 1 above (not me) made some assumptions that might be unfair. But as someone who's read this weblog for some time, and who has seen your name come up often, I am sure that I have some assumptions about who you are and what you think. For example, I assume you are anti-abortion.
Not to say that's right, just trying to share some perspective.
I think that the point was: why do you assume that the mother in the video chose the baby?
From my perspective, the video is not about whether the mother had a choice. It looks to me like this is all about whether we are willing to help her with the reality of her child, chosen or unchosen.
ReplyDeleteI, for one, believe that we should help her, even if it was her "choice" to have the baby. I think that's what it all comes down to: being there for each other.
Thanks, Bob H. You brought us back to the only point our video intends.
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